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Finishing up with our Homeschool Mixer Questions,

13. What difficulties and challenges do you have with homeschooling?

I can think of two main challenges from our homeschooling years. The first major challenge was finding local like-minded homeschoolers. It seemed like every homeschooler that we knew within a reasonable driving distance either homeschooled for religious reasons (which we did not) and/or they followed a strict school-at-home schedule with curriculum, lesson plans, etc. Each circumstance led to uncomfortable visits, awkward conversations, and the feeling that you had to keep silent so that you didn’t offend someone or appear to be passing judgment upon how they homeschooled.
The second challenge was the learning styles in our family. I am a very visual, text-based learner. I also like to learn things for myself, do them myself. I most definitely am not an auditory learner, unless something is put to music. My children tended to be auditory, visual and hands-on. Sometimes their needs to learn things for themselves without assistance butted heads with their need to be shown how to do something, an issue I frequently have. So dealing with the issues presented with our sometimes very different learning styles and sometimes too similar learning styles was a continual challenge all through out homeschooling years. In fact, I was so aware of this issue that I wrote several articles about learning styles, which can be found on the LeapingFromTheBox.com website.

14. What makes homeschooling enjoyable?

The gift of time that it gives to the whole family - time to pursue interests, time to have a life other than school, time to give to others.

15. How do you get involved in the community?

My husband and I are not really joiners, so community involvement was not an area that we concentrated on. Sometimes I think that was a mistake, but that is just who we are, or rather, aren’t. Community involvement was in the areas of our activities; youth sports, square dancing group, martial arts lessons. When those groups held community activities, then we joined in.

16. When do you have opportunities to interact with public or privately schooled children?

Through many activities, such as sports, art lessons, interests such as astronomy and chess. We really were not isolated, contrary to what the popular societal belief is about homeschoolers.

17. Would you like more of these opportunities?

If we had lived in a less rural area, there would have been more such opportunities. But honestly, I am not sure we would have sought them out. We really had enough activities as it was, for the most part, and I don’t know what we would have gained by making a point of seeking out activities that involved public or privately schooled children.

18. How can they be created?

The marketplace, supply and demand, will eventually create them, if they are desired by homeschoolers. Already there are many more opportunities for activities in the public sector for homeschoolers than there were twelve years ago when we first began homeschooling. That is due to the increase of homeschoolers and their demand for more activities outside of the church and outside of the public school venue. I also believe as public schools go through more and more rounds of cutbacks due to the economy, that more activities will be funded by the parents in the community, hence more interaction of homeschooled and public schooled children.

19. What is your least favorite homeschool stereotype?

My least favorite is the notion that we all homeschool for religious reasons, which is a stereotype even within the homeschool community. I receive advertising packets geared towards homeschoolers that is 100% religious in its slant. I have received phone calls from political parties urging me to vote for specific politicians who expound a particular belief, assuming that because I am a homeschooler, I must be pro-life or pro-whatever.

Continuing with our Homeschool Mixer Questions,

6. What does your daily schedule look like?

Our schedules always varied, depending upon the season and the activities that the children were involved in. And honestly, it is difficult to remember exact schedules from ten or twelve years ago! Most of the time the children slept late, arising anywhere from 11 a.m. to 1 p.m. (yes, I did say slept late!). A lot depended upon what activities they were scheduled to go to and when they were younger, early teens, they got up earlier than 11. But morning activities were always a challenge for us, especially if it meant getting up and eating food before driving anywhere!

Any academics that we did together were done in the afternoon. Usually we were reading aloud (me reading, children listening) from some work of literature; two or three afternoons a week I would read aloud for an hour or more. I also read aloud history. History is my love and not a subject that my children would usually read on their own (unless they found a particular time or place they were extremely interested in), so I would read whatever history book I thought they might enjoy. My children loved being read aloud to and I hated reading aloud (still do), but I spent many hours doing so, even until they were well into their teens.

7. Are your kids always polite and ready to learn?

Huh?! You’ve got to be kidding! First, with our method of homeschooling, unschooling, they learned what they were interested in, for the most part. So if they were interested, I suppose they were ready to learn. As for polite, well, mostly. I suppose some very strict families would have considered them occasionally rude or inconsiderate or likely even disrespectful, but I had different standards and so I felt they were just normal children. Well, maybe not normal, as that was always considered a bad word in our house!

8. Do the kids (or you!) get frustrated?

Of course! We all got frustrated at times. That’s just a part of living together, being a family, not really a by-product of homeschooling.

9. How has this affected your parenting?

I thought these were homeschooling questions?! I never found a magic pill to dispel frustration. It was just something we had to work through. Communication, time, patience, all factor into dealing with frustration, but I have no pat answers for this one.

10. How much free time do they have?

Most of their day was their free time, to do with as they wished, dictated by our outside activities schedule. They had chores to do, helping around the house with kitchen duties and laundry and such. And we would try to plan reading together time several days a week, along with some board game / card game playing time. But all things considered, most of their days were their time.

11. What do they do during their free time?

Learn. Live. Explore. Grow.

12. What hobbies do they have?

Hobby is an interesting word and not one I have really used since we began homeschooling / unschooling. A hobby to me is something you do to take you away from your every day world, let you forget the stress of work or life and just enjoy some small area of your life. As unschoolers, we tend to gravitate naturally to those areas that would be considered a “hobby” and consider that a part of our life. Interests my children have had that they have made a part of their life, but might be considered hobbies, are many. Some they have held on to for years, continuing to do them as adults, even working to turn them into a career option. Some they have let lie fallow while pursuing other interests. Here are just a few over the last twelve years of homeschooling:

Martial Arts (Karate, Jujitsu)
Web Design
Game Programming
Writing / Blogging / FanFic
Basketball (and Soccer and Softball)
Reading
RPG’s (Role Playing Games)
X-Box (and PlayStation and Wii)
King Arthur Lore
Celtic History / Lore / Music / Culture

Tomorrow I will finish answering the Homeschool Mixer Questions. The last questions are:

13. What difficulties and challenges do you have with homeschooling?
14. What makes homeschooling enjoyable?
15. How do you get involved in the community?
16. When do you have opportunities to interact with public or privately schooled children?
17. Would you like more of these opportunities?
18. How can they be created?
19. What is your least favorite homeschool stereotype?